De letterlijke betekenis van "CONFLICT":

• Een conflict = (kort vertaald)  de situatie dat er ruzie is.

Het is een situatie van o.a.

• een aanvaring
• een botsing
• een geschil
• een onenigheid
• tweesrijd
• oorlog
• tweedracht
• verdeeldheid

Een woordelijke uitleg die iets uitgebreider is:

• Een conflict = een verschil van mening waarbij twee of meerdere personen-partijen een doelstelling nastreven of een waarde aanhangen die onverenigbaar blijken te zijn en daardoor in botsing komen.

Of anders:

• Een conflict = Een verschil van mening of een gevoel van onvrede met een bestaande situatie, waardoor de verhouding tussen twee of meer partijen niet optimaal is.

Of nog weer iets anders:

• Een conflict = toestand van kwaad zijn op elkaar.

The literal meaning of "conflict":

Conflict = (translated briefly)  the situation in which there is a quarrel.

It is a situation of, among other things:

• a collision
• a clash
• a dispute
• a disagreemen
• discord
• war
• dissension
• division

A literal explanation that is a bit more extensive:

• A conflict =a difference of opinion in which two or more persons-parties pursue an objective or adhere to a value that turns out to be incompatible and therefore clash.

Or else:

• conflict = A difference of opinion or a feeling of dissatisfaction with an existing situation, as a result of which the relationship between two or more parties is not optimal.

Or again in other way:

• A conflict = state of being angry with each other

Why did I hear with great surprise the reaction of a very faithful brother from Dipolog, during our swimming together in the sea (the brother from Dipolog who was a skipper (Bongo?)) He told me that my brother-in-law, brother Rolly, sometimes want to know him and sometimes didn't want to know him. The conflict was therefore very clearly present, especially in the related brother and sister Rolly & Nora.

Even during the life of Hannah my wife, this very big conflict took place. While I continued to go to church in Dipolog with my wife Hannah, I was already informed by my sister-in-law Nora of a huge conflict that they had with our church in Dipolog and Nora showed several brothers with photos of brothers in Dipolog who were no longer good in her meaning.

So here also brothers that I have met regularly afterwards and where I myself have never come across anything reprehensible.

This apparently very high conflict was also very unclear to my wife Hannah.

In any case, also Hannah could not make anything clear to me about this during her life.

But it also became an irrefutable fact during my last stay in Dipolog that this conflict could have continued.

Yes, this irrefutable fact could even continue after the death of my wife Hannah.

There was an irrefutable, obvious fact that the conflict could continue unchangeably even after her death.

In the city of Dipolog, it even turned out that meetings could take place on Sundays in 2 different places.

In our local church and in the house of an older sister of our Church?

During my presence in the St. Peters Chapel, on the first day there was only 1 large wreath on the right side on which was written Church of OSMENA and on one of the last days there suddenly appeared also to be a large wreath on the right side: of the Church in DIPOLOG.

But it turned out already that my wife Hannah was never picked up by brothers or sisters in the city of OSMENA (so for 2 years) for going to the. Church meetings in Osmena (supposedly no one owned a car)

And that while during our stay in Dipolog we were always picked up by the brothers in the city of Dipolog to go to the Church meetings.

And I still don't understand this at all.

What had happened and why had this conflict really arisen mainly in the minds of my immediate family?

My wife Hannah and me were certainly not helped by this conflict.

During my stay in Dipolog I was really fantastically received by brothers and sisters of the Dipolog Church and a follow-up visit to the OSMENA congregation was never possible because strangely enough I was no longer welcomed by the brother and sister-in-law of OSMENA

I have always wanted to be above this myself and finally wanted to let my sister-in-law Nora know about this, even if I was already in Manilla and then I was also happy to received an answer of sister Nora that moment.